Wedding Blues

Wedding Blues

Weddings are definitely something to look forward to. In Fact some of us have been dreaming about the big day all our lives. A joyous occasion is created by the coming together of cultures and families, as well as the celebration of love. The wedding clothing must be chosen, the guest list must be prepared, the wedding site must be finalised and hired, and the honeymoon must be thoroughly planned. A wedding is most definitely an elaborate affair. But what comes next? The post-wedding blues set in once the joyful storm passes and regular life resumes. It is thought that brides are more affected than grooms. So how do you get over this phase? Dont worry your pretty little minds as we at LMW shall provide you with the best tips to get over these wedding blues once and for all.

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Recognize the distinction between a wedding and a marriage. Your married life has begun, even though your wedding is done. As a result, you must consciously change your focus away from the thrill of having had the happiest day of your life and toward the prospect of spending the rest of your life with your partner. Work on your relationship and make it stronger. The wedding you spent so many months planning is actually over and this is not something to be disheartened about. Of course the pomp and splendour of the wedding has ceased but there’s more to look forward to with your partner.

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Process your Feelings

Marriage is a huge commitment. Post-wedding blues hit women more often than men as women have to leave the comfort of their house and begin an entirely new life with their significant other. They may be disappointed by this huge development. They may also be missing their loved ones. Mixed emotions are common at this time of transition, and experts advise that you process them rather than disregard them. Recognize that sadness is unavoidable, but that you are still linked to them. Begin your new life with a positive attitude.

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Wait a Day or Two

After the big day it is common for couples to  fly off to their honeymoon destination. We suggest you plan your honeymoon a day or two later as this would give you the time to acknowledge the fact that the event you have been planning for ages has come to an end. A break after the wedding allows you to process your feelings and look forward to your honeymoon. It gives you just enough time to recharge yourself after the big day. At times dodging into your honeymoon soon after your wedding could make you feel lonely as you spent the last couple of days prior, surrounded by family and friends. So give yourself the much needed break from your wedding and fly to paradise.

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Every Day Counts

 Some people may assume, a wedding or honeymoon is the only exciting thing about marriage. This could not be more wrong!  Marriage is a journey and there is always something to look forward to. Whether it is surprising your spouse with a candlelight dinner or taking a leisurely stroll at the park, marriage always has something exciting in store. Spend time with your spouse. Establish your relationship, redefining it at times. Marriage is always an exciting journey so plan ahead and enjoy every single moment as the simple things are what matter most in life.

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 We hope these tips were useful to you in beating those post-wedding blues. Always remember, take things slow and savour every moment as you will always have something to look forward to. Do check out our latest blogs on our website and we’re sure you won't be disappointed.